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Laura London's avatar

No disrespect but ironically I see a lot of pride in the woman who writes this. She positions woman not as a victim of the fall but of our culture and her sex, her primary issues are the ones that revolve around *her* being forced to be more loving through child rearing.

A woman can and often does fulfill the motherly role with immense amounts of sin, rarely are mothers self sacrificial in the way that is holy. Just as a man can sacrifice to provide and fail to do it out of love.

My main take after reading this is that theology seems deeply corrupted by worldly ideas

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Loup des Abeilles's avatar

Certainly a valid critique -- I would only adjust your last sentence to read "HER theology" rather than theology as such! Still, there is *something* true here that resonates, I would say not just for women, but for men. I find clues of it when I prepare for confession and consider both what I have done, and what I have *left undone.* The question being, in the light of the Parable of the Talents, what gifts have I buried? Where, in service, have I used service to escape a deeper service, an attentiveness to some other task that God has also given me, some other gift that I must also cultivate? And sometimes those other gifts can seem "selfish" or contrary to the self-giving I am called to make to my family. Of course this reasoning can also be applied as an excuse to evade an obligation... no hard and fast rules here: discernment is necessary, as always!

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